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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • I’m getting paywalled and can’t be bothered getting around it but I’ve read a lot about this from the researchers who study it, it’s quite interesting. Is it possible that cells can have memory? Of course. Could energy persist beyond the physical? Sure.

    I wouldn’t call myself a believer but I’m definitely a curious observer.





  • To clarify, yet again, the girls who would pull this trick would act as if they were interested in the guy that they chose, and were interested in sleeping with them. They were not interested in sleeping with them, they just wanted free drinks. The guys would find out at the end of the night that these girls were pretending to be interested just to get drinks, and would be annoyed that they had been tricked. At no point did anyone owe anything to anyone else.

    A guy who had been tricked like this in the past might avoid anyone that he thinks might be trying it in the future.

    Read this through again. Think about what you’re saying. To suggest it’s a ‘trick’ to accept a gift that’s offered without offering your own self as a reward. If you truly believe that women don’t owe men sex if they buy them a drink then why are you talking about it as if they’re not holding up their end of the bargain?







  • Next year. It’s already flowering so it’s too late for this year. It will vary depending on where you are but I’d say maybe late feb?

    I think you might be right that it isn’t in great health but I do think the overpruning is part of it. There just won’t be enough leaves to support that big thick trunk. I think adding nutrients might really help but I don’t want to recommend any as it’s not something I’ve had to do myself.


  • That looks over pruned to me, There’s barely any flowering branches vs the trunk and that leads to less leaves to support the tree.

    Look at this tree

    You can see that it’s an even shape, and clearly cared for, but it has a massive canopy vs trunk. It’s not the same species but it’s an example of the balance.

    This video is quite a severe prune and you can see that he hasn’t really taken a lot.

    Leave it alone for now and then go for it in early spring.

    However, if it’s so heavily pruned because you’re just taking off dead bits then it’s not a very healthy tree and I’d look at that first. I definitely water mine in the height of summer, which is an easy change to make, but it might need more.