• Soup@lemmy.world
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    11 hours ago

    You’ve completely missed the point about community, eh? And you know people don’t get to pick where they’re born or where their extended family lives, right? So they get born into these places and get locked down for whatever reason and can’t leave. Certainly they can’t all leave in one perfect unit all at the same time.

    Also that’s not how all products are sold, holy shit. Maybe certain drop shippers, sure, but that’s not how it works.

    • Know_not_Scotty_does@lemmy.world
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      10 hours ago

      I can tell you the other thing people do as they grow up and that is develop their own views. Growing up in Texas, I didn’t realize anything was wrong or out of the ordinary politically/ideologivally. My parents had their views which initially became my views since that was what was normal in my family and community

      Getting older and more mature, I realized I didn’t agree with my state or parents but I also didn’t have the option to pack up and leave. By the time I was able to sustain myself and build a life, I had already gotten a job, a relationship, and wanted to start building my own family. Doing that meant staying where I was since my in-laws were in the same city and my spouse didn’t want to be away from them.

      Even if on paper to some people it is as easy as just sell your house and leave there are complicating factors. I don’t want my kids to have to deal with hurricanes, power grid failures, intolerance of others, and everything else Texas has to “offer” but at the same time, its not so easy to just bail and start again.

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        15 minutes ago

        Can’t really escape the power grid failures, but as far as hurricanes and intolerance go, there’s always Austin.

    • 474D@lemmy.world
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      9 hours ago

      Dude it’s just moving, it’s not that hard. People do it multiple times in their lives. Relax.