> The kind of person who posts on 4chan and thinks he deserves a gf
> Wonders why women don’t like him
Where do I post to improve my chances with women?
Does Lemmy and/or kbin improve my chances of getting a girlfriend?
get a hobby. take a shower. go to the gym
A relationship is not a job or product, you don’t get them, you HAVE them WITH other people. People don’t have other people, although it is common to say so in colloquial language.
This is important and not petty, because language is like a sign post of beliefs and it is important for starting respectful relationships to believe that everyone involved is a person.
Now, with that knowledge, lemmy can help you, but it can also hurt or not help you.
Rule of thumb: Anyone who says “I deserve a girlfriend” doesn’t.
If you use the term “manlet” you’re pretty much unfuckable, that could be part of it.
These posts are such schadenfreude to me as a shorter guy (“manlet”) who has never had any problems dating or getting women. The kind of people who make these posts and think courtship is some max/min game don’t realize that people can smell this shit on them. Their insecurity, misogyny, entitlement and racism just ooze out of them. It colors everything they do.
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I have a strong sense of morality
lists “white” as a reason he “deserves” a gf
Can children please be taught that women are human beings and not objects
Referring to his hypothetical children as “offspring” is what tipped me off.
Posts on 4chan
Nice of him to include unit conversions. Would want any of your international homies to be confused about how much of an alpha you are
strong sense of morality
strong sense of honor
legitimately worried about “predators” in 2023 (definitely no problematic implications with that phrasing)
feels entitled to the love of a person he’s never met
ok
I read “I deserve a gif” multiple times and I was so confused.
Wtf does having a strong sense of honor have to do with anything? Sounds kinda like you’re insecure.
It influences the good taste in anime. It also ensures he only uses his massive schlong when it’s truly called for, and never for evil purposes.
these kinds of people are lacking in the personality department
General fatherless behavior. If you don’t have a positive male role model in a happy relationship to learn from, you’re pretty much never going to be a good partner as a man.
There is so much bad and toxic relationship advice out there, good luck changing.
Hello argument, I am counterpoint. I did not have a positive male role model and it may have set me back a bit but I still found my way to a happy marriage and positive parenthood.
